HELLO GOODBYE

HAHAHAHA. Surprise topic. but I suddenly remembered reading some article that lw showed me few weeks back. So the controversial was all over about girls loving bad boys (BB) and chucking good guys (GG) off from the “people to date” rack and its been very much proven that BB may indeed beat GG when it comes to getting female attention. HAHAHA. Being a female myself, I’m def not opposing to this generality at all.

Having said this, we ever had a short conversation about my expectations when it comes to getting a boyfriend. I mean okay.. If u really ask me to define “bad boy”, I won’t stereotype smokers, clubbers, playboy etc to be one of them . Rather, I think they are just the type of guy who knows exactly how to act and wad to say to manipulate women into giving him what he wants. Or even, making women fall for him. THEN FUCK CARE ALR!

Yes, You might already think I am one of the minority who hates BB , but sadly, I once told people that I rather BB den GG. OR rather, BB turns good. =D But cmon, tts asking for the impossible seriously. Cos if he would ever turn good, he WONT be bad luh. -.- well I guess im just taking things for granted. But I realised, the BB craze and excitement can only last for that moment, until the sparks died, for it is their physiology attributes which attracted ladies’s attention. Not psychologically. They speak fluently (in negative terms) and have a way with words. They are the ones who talked you into leaving yr good ol’ good guy bf. They made you envisioned them as the HOT N NAUGHT (Y) boyfriend whom your gfs will swarm all over. You think they are the walking models whom u can bring them out and flaunt to the world, NOTE! YOU THINK. They might look even worse den any GGbf whom u ever had. Yikes. Sounds gross? Well, it is human’s nature to fall for illusions. Illusions which clearly blinds them from the truth that HE IS A JERK! JERK!! OR EVEN, U-G-L-Y JERK! Duh!

BUT GG are the ones who stood by you. They might be the one who has been listening to you crying over your BAD BOY boyfriend the one whom u tot might have given up things for you. GGbf are the the ones whom you call everynight when u have a fight with the BBbf. The ones who went shopping with you for your BBbf’s vday gift, bday gift, monthly anniversaries. -.- The ones who stood at the side waiting for you to end class while you are hugging and smooching your BBbf in the deserted corner. They are the ones who has been there 99% of the time. And tts 98% MORE THEN the time and attention your stupid BBbf gives to you.. But sadly, they often go unnoticed. I guess they actually requires a longer time to be taken note of, but nonetheless, they are also the ones whom I can safely say that will be the ones who last (as in ever lasting’s last) in the relationship. At least that’s for me.

All in all, I dunno how this would actually affect the people reading this, but I guess its about time we girls should take a look around clearly, OPEN THAT HALFCOCKED EYES and take a clear view of our surrounding, the one whom u are looking for might jus be the one who has been around all this while yet unnoticed cos he was not the ‘legendary’ BB and for guys, dun change to be the bad guy that everybody is talking about, for the conclusion is that,

Good guys finish last. but finish best. (:

FOOEETING, EDITH